7 Steps to Stress Management

The more you understand about any subject, the more interesting it becomes. As you read this article you’ll find that the subject of stress management is certainly no exception.
There is a saying, there’s more than one way to skin a cat. The same goes when you start tearing your hair out with all the frustration, grief, anxiety, and yes, stress. Think of it as a state of mental conditioning that is like taking that bitter pill down your throat,making you lose your sense of self and worse your sanity. Even thinking about it can drive anyone off the edge.
And they say that the proactive ones are already living off the edge.Yes as one stressed-out person to another, I know how it feels, and believe me there are many variants when it comes to stress. Coping with life, and carrying the problems that may or may not belong to you can scratch away the little joy and happiness that you can carry once you head out the door. You can’t blame them for being like that; they have their own reasons, so much like we have our reasons to allow stress to weigh us down. Experts say that stress is all in the mind, well, what’s bugging you anyway?
So there are several ways to manage stress, and eventually remove it out of your life one of these days. I’ll divide it into a seven-day course for you and I promise it’s not going to be too taxing on the body, as well on the mind.
1. Admit that stress is good Let stress be your friend! Based on the body’s natural “fight or flight” response, that burst of energy will enhance your performance at the right moment. I’ve yet to see a top sportsman totally relaxed before a big competition. Use stress wisely to push yourself that little bit harder when it counts most.
2. Stay away from stress sneezers Stressed people sneeze stress germs indiscriminately and before you know it, you are infected too! Protect yourself by seeing stress in others and limiting your contact with them. Or if you’ve got the inclination, play stress doctor and teach them how to better manage themselves.
3.Be taught by the best When people around are losing their head, who keeps calm? What are they doing differently? In case you base what you do on inaccurate information, you might be unpleasantly surprised by the consequences. Be sure you get the whole stress management story from informed sources. What is their attitude? What language do they use? Are they trained and experienced? Figure it out from afar or sit them down for a chat. Learn from the best stress managers and copy what they do.
4. Learn socially acceptable heavy breathing This is something I’ve learned from a gym instructor: You can trick your body into relaxing by using heavy breathing. Breathe in slowly for a count of 7,then breathe out for a count of 11. Repeat the 7-11 breathing until your heart rate slows down,your sweaty palms dry off and things start to feel more normal.
5. Red light stressy thoughts. It is possible to tangle yourself up in a stress knot all by yourself. “If this happens, then that might happen and then we’re all up the creek!” Most of these things never happen, so why waste all that energy worrying needlessly. Give stress thought-trains the red light and stop them in their tracks. Okay so it might go wrong- how likely is that, and what can you do to prevent it?
6. Familiarize yourself with your trigger points and hot spots Presentations, interviews, meetings, giving difficult feedback, tight deadlines…. My heart rate is cranking up just writing these down! Make your own list of trigger points or hot spots. Be specific. Is it only presentations to a certain audience that get you worked up? Does one project cause more stress than another? Did you drink too much coffee? Kwowing what causes you stress is powerful information, as you can take action to make it can take action to make it less stressful. Do you need to learn some new skills? Do you need extra resources? Do you need to switch to decaf?
7. Burn the candle only at one end Lack of sleep, poor diet and no exercise wreaks havoc on our body and mind. Kind of obvious, but worth mentioning as it’s often ignored as a stress management technique. Listen to your mother and don’t burn the candle at both ends! So we know having stress can be a total drag, but that should not stop us from finding inner peace of mind that we have wanted for a long time. In any case, one could always go to the Bahamas and bask under the summer sun. Don’t limit yourself by refusing to learn the details about stress management. The more you know,the easuer it will be to focus on what’s important.